Heartrending Feelings

My philosophy: A man is incomplete without pain and sorrows.

Alright this statement seems too much heartrending to some of you, but life treats us like that. Nature has given us feelings that we can sometimes hide from outside world but sometimes cannot control them. A moment or two you’re happy with everything, and it feels like you own the world around you, and there is nothing you can get sad about. I don’t understand how it works but at times we give up ourselves, we think that the one we love is everything for us, we try our best to be loyal to that person, and what we get in response is nothing, not even the love and trust we had put in this unnamed relation. If we analyze our daily lives, mostly we get sad because of people around us. The reason could be anything. The way of communication, the way of understanding each others' opinions, the way of thinking, basically it could be anything you don’t appreciate.

Now there is a solution to this situation, or you can take it as my suggestion. Just ask yourself for a while who do you exactly live for? Why are you in this world? Would your actions hurt anyone’s feeling? Is there anyone who really cares for you, and how is your behavior towards that person? How do you know that you’re right if you’re not listening? What makes you think about the person you love? What is making you sad and why?

Couple of questions, but you’ll solve a lot of daily problems by answering them. You don’t have to love the one who don’t care about you. You should try loving the one who really cares about you and your feelings, who can understand you. It’s not important that the person you love must be with you physically, this is which makes us weaker with time, especially when you’re in some long-distance relationship. Sincerity is everything, but these days you’ve to show your partner that you really are sincere, and sometimes when you’re trying to show your sincerity the argument gets on which leads to other unexpected issues.

You don’t have to just sit and wait for the right time. You’ve to struggle for everything. You’ve to work hard till you achieve your life’s goal. Giving up yourself to someone you barely know is stupidity. True friends never hurt each other, and it’s better to have friends rather than diving in some deep love shit. (I might sound insane, but this is how it works, beware before experiencing it, because it hurts like hell...) And as I just said in the commencement, “A man is incomplete without pain and sorrows.” We are humans, we do mistakes, but regretting past makes no difference, so live happily, life has much more to give...